Championing For Her Child
Only a few months after
making his grand debut, baby Cole, in monumental fashion, rolled over.
He was checking off
developmental progress boxes with ease, even a touch ahead of his older
brother.
“And then when 6 months
hit, everything kind of came to a screeching halt,” said Nicole, his mother.
Cole wasn’t attempting to
move much. He couldn’t seem to figure out how to pick up, wiggle or control his
hands and legs. Nicole did not steep in her concern or pick apart her
observations in quiet. Her parent intuition guided her to book the next
available doctor’s appointment.
But the diagnosis Nicole
received wasn’t for her son; it was for her.
“I think you just have
anxiety; there’s nothing wrong here,” said the pediatrician.
The vague, blanket
explanation didn't feel accurate, so Nicole reached out for another opinion.
“The new pediatrician
immediately referred me to an early intervention program who then conducted an
assessment to confirm Cole would benefit from physical therapy,” said Nicole.
It wasn’t long after Cole
began physical therapy session that he also introduced to speech therapy.
Little Lukes children’s
speech therapist Janelle started by trying to help Cole chew, figure out a
motor plan and how to hold utensils. After watching Cole eat, she discovered
his right side was weaker than his left side and as a result, his bite was
crooked. With his parents’ permission, Janelle gently used tongue depressors to
adjust Cole’s bite to correct the mouth alignment and strength of his jaw.
“Speech therapy started out
with focusing on Cole’s chewing and eating and from there it became more
evident that he was delayed in other areas, so we got more and more intense
with it,” said Nicole.
Cole continued to show
waves of growth through the encouragement and instruction of his Little Lukes
physical therapist, speech therapist and occupational therapist.
“We were fortunate to have
really, really good therapists and they pointed things out to us that we didn’t
realize, and we’re like, ‘Yes, that makes sense now. This is exactly what’s
going on. And now we know a little bit about why certain things are happening.’
We aren’t crazy. Something is going on with our son.”
But it wasn’t until Cole
turned 4 that they understood the full “why”.
Finding Answers
Because Cole didn’t fit any of the typical childhood issues, doctors couldn’t pinpoint the cause of his delays. Last summer he went to the Gebbie Speech, Language and Hearing Clinic at Syracuse University for a deep analysis of his cognitive development. Here, experts confirmed an apraxia diagnosis, which affects speech and motor planning. In addition to this diagnosis, a MRI scan was conducted. From the MRI results, his family’s pediatric specialist verified Cole has Agenesis of the Corpus Collosum (ACC). ACC affects 1 in 3,000 children and occurs when the communicative bridge of neural connections between the left side of the brain and the right side of the brain is absent.
The Little Lukes therapist
Samantha attended Syracuse University and personally knew the doctor at the
Gebbie Clinic who assessed Cole. The two connected to come up with a more
individualized plan.
“Samantha went above and
beyond to help Cole,” said Nicole. “She kept adjusting the program as Cole
responded and met goals. Really, all of our therapists were so phenomenal.”
On The Same Page
Attempting to identify the natural way Cole best collects and retains information, Nicole and her three Little Lukes therapists all sat down, brought their textbooks, printouts and compared notes on what they found about ACC to talk about consistency, binary choices and crossing the midline.
“We already knew it is
important we do the exact same thing, the exact same way across the board,”
said Nicole.
Despite limited research,
the team synchronized a plan based off of their findings and what previously
worked for Cole. What the group already had in place wasn’t far off from the
research they collected. Their system focused on repetition, even down to the
finer details of the lessons.
“He was crazy about Paw
Patrol and Curious George for a while,” said Nicole. “He learned his colors
through Paw Patrol characters through visualization. We all used the same
characters so that we were all on the same page to really keep him engaged and
not confuse him.”
As Cole's interests expand,
his therapies grow with them. Inspector Gadget and the Rescue Bots are now
commonly used during pediatric speech therapy, occupational therapy and
physical therapy to keep him engaged.
“The amount of time and
energy all of the Little Lukes therapists gave to help Cole over the years is
just so incredibly wonderful,” said Nicole. “But now that he’s transferring from
Little Lukes Preschool to a new school district to start kindergarten, I’m
nervous about losing the momentum we’ve gained as he heads to elementary
school.”
Fully invested in Cole’s
journey and ready to help alleviate concern and stress, his Little Lukes
therapists have connected with the new school’s therapist to ensure a smooth
transition. The N.Y. children’s therapy team has even attended all of Cole’s
IEP (Individualized Education Program) planning and transitional meetings. This
unwavering support that led to tremendous growth and benefits for Cole all
began when Nicole trusted her intuition.
“It’s difficult to be an
advocate for your child,” said Nicole. “There are parents who are afraid or not
as confident when a doctor tells them that it is the way it is. Parents may
become nervous to question the expert. But being that close up every day, you
can tell what is and isn’t working for your child. You need to take confidence
in that.”
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